The Four "Idols" That Promise Happiness but Deliver Regret

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Drawing on Aristotle and St. Thomas Aquinas, Arthur Brooks identifies four things people mistakenly pursue as ends in themselves: money, power (influence over others), pleasure (including comfort and security), and honor (prestige, fame, or admiration). He calls these "idols" because the brain convinces people that obtaining them will finally produce lasting satisfaction — but they never do, placing people on a "hedonic treadmill" (a cycle where the emotional reward of any gain resets quickly, requiring more). The danger is not the things themselves — Brooks says all four can be used for good — but treating any one of them as the primary goal, because doing so reliably crowds out love and relationships, which he describes as the actual foundation of happiness. He offers a self-diagnostic exercise: eliminate the idol you care least about, one by one, until the last remaining one reveals where you are most vulnerable to chasing the wrong thing.